The Woodlands Community and Support Group for Widows
The Woodlands Community is currently meeting virtually. Contact the Community Advocate for meeting location and details.
Our Mission for Widows
We serve to empower widows to “lean into life,” build resilience and release their potential to make a positive difference in the world.
Modern Widows Club is designed to create a safe and private environment for widows to lean into life together through the journey.
We are the club no one wants to be in because you only get in by virtue of experiencing a great loss. Yet what I hope you find once you’re here is that you’re surrounded by a community of really amazing women that you can lean on and learn from. We’re widows helping widows to live – to go upward and onward. Sometimes we cry and sometimes we laugh. We talk about how to tackle challenges without our husbands’ help and cheer each other on. We often share food as we do this, because who doesn’t like to eat?
When a woman loses her husband she tends to feel very alone. Regardless of her age or circumstances, she can use other women in her life who understand the unique challenges she is now faced with. She needs women who will build her up and encourage her in this new life she walks. We are stronger together. No woman is an island. We need each other.
Meet Our Community Advocates
My name is Cindy, and I became a widow in 2015 after 36 years of marriage. This day was the most tragic and devastating day of my life. I felt as though I died that day too. For forty years our souls were grafted together. We started our lives together as kids with a naive innocence and hopes of a wonderful life. We both got our college degrees, had two daughters and continually strived to become all that we could be.
Despite having a College degree, I would define myself as a wife and mother. My Husband was a driven workaholic and except for a brief period, I did not work outside of the home. My entire identity was defined by my role of wife, mother, grandmother.
My Husband died after a short struggle with a rare disease. Though he lived a short life, he led a meaningful life. He was the love of my life, the father of my children and the nostalgia of my youth. As devastating as his loss was, I stand as an example for other widows that this arduous journey to self-actualize as a an individual after a life time of being a couple, is possible. We at MWC focus on growth in this new reality.
The Modern Widows Club is a village, a tribe, a sisterhood that helps to pull each lost little soul forward on this daunting journey called widowhood.
Nyla lost her husband to lung cancer in August of 2013. They were married for 22 years. Although she was very grateful to have had those years, no amount of time would have been long enough. She have 4 adult children (2 “bonus” and 2 biological) and 7 grandchildren. She is a retired registered nurse, an avid dog fancier, and self-proclaimed “foodie”. Originally from Minnesota, she has been in Texas since the early 80’s and now consider the Houston area “home”.
When her husband died, she began looking for others who understood the path–women that would “get it”. Despite many long time loving friends and family that were kind and supportive, she was looking for those that could identify with the journey to finding a new, albeit unchosen and unwanted, way of life. She have found that band of women through Modern Widows Club. Every time she come home from our meeting, she felt so uplifted. She hoped to find ways to connect with others going through this challenging time as we each become a new and better person.
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